Steve Jobs said:
"I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: 'If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has been 'No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something."
This is a seminal question about the quality of life that needs to be considered as you decide on a divorce. Many people just consider whether the finances will work out. Many are frozen by fear of the unknown future. Many people do not even consider Steve Jobs outlook that focuses upon the question of whether, in the long run, this relationship is working out for you.
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